AHumm... right... then where did all that expert advice originated from? OMG! It was all just a LARP!
There are ways to know things without needing to be involved in the fighting. Like having been present throughout the two years(ish) of the war narrative and paying attention to its various mechanisms.
Thargoids also only send the drones to do their fighting which are not involved in the reproduction process, they're just the end result of it. Unless I get something wrong about what you're saying.
Also, did you really have to take a picture of your face in a helmet on the night side of a planet, with an active flashlight pointed directly at the camera? Because that's what will get you a gravity curse.