If you're going to send in-game or inara friend requests at least do what I've asked countless times in my youtube vids... leave a comment on one of them letting me know who you are. If I get a friend request from someone I've never heard of, or from, I'm not going to accept it, simple as that. I'm not one of those who collects ED friends that I'll never wing/team up with or even say two words to. I don't see the point.